Monday, September 06, 2010

Attract Girls by Learning How to Increase Their Interest Level

If you don't know how to increase interest level how will you attract girls?

When you attempt to attract girls are you the only one calling, texting, or making plans?

Do you find yourself saying,"It would be really nice if they initiated things once in awhile ..." Guess what dude? She’s not interested!!! Even if she has some interest in you, I can 100% guarantee that her interest level in you is LOWER than your interest level in her. What you say? You’re “dating” her or even in a “committed relationship” -- people get bored all the time guy, just because she WAS interested doesn’t mean she’s still interested!!! If “your girl” is making you do all the work you’re on the path to getting dumped or cheated on!

You need to remember this -- the opposite sex is always more inclined to stray and "innocently" see what's out there when they feel like they have you "in the bag" so to speak, and in their mind there is no consequence to treating you as an afterthought. If “your girl” goes out and parties all night, flirts (OR DOES MORE!!!) with a bunch of guys behind your back, and keeps secrets about what she’s doing when you’re not around, BUT you still chase her around like a little puppy dog it sends the message that regardless of what she does or how she treats you, you’ll always be around. Even if you sack up and get in her face, but she has lost interest in you -- guess what dude, she’s not going to care.

If you feel the need to increase someone's interest level in you, it means you're not getting the amount of attention you want from them. Most basic of dating questions, how do you attract girls?

Key #1 -- Attract girls by staying at the top of your game, and BE ATTRACTIVE.

More than a few ladies have strayed after their partner quit taking care of themselves. On a regular basis you should go through the exercise of understanding what you're looking for in a woman, and in turn what your woman is looking for in a man.

Once you've started putting forward your best self by BEING ATTRACTIVE, you need to understand that people want what other people want which leads us to ...

Key #2 -- Whether or not you are in a relationship, you need to always talk with members of the opposite sex.

Once you "get whipped" its like the entire world ceases to exist, even other women. You need to keep talking to the opposite sex -- especially attractive members of the opposite sex. No, you don't have to hit on them or make sexual innuendos, JUST TALK. Get to know someone new and have fun. I guarantee, if you want to increase the amount of attention someone gives you and they have even an ounce of romantic interest in you -- they will go nuts when they see you chat with someone of the opposite sex THAT THEY DON'T KNOW.

Remember: the only time women who are interested in you don't get jealous of another girl is when they don't consider them a threat for your sexual attention.

To ensure success in increasing someone else's interest level in you, you need to make sure you perform a final last step...

Key #3 -- Attract girls by making yourself LESS available to the object of your affection.

Why is this? Its very simple, right now you're being taken for granted. Guess what though? People don't take for granted things they have fought for -- this applies to all aspects of life! If you followed my suggestions:

  1. By putting forward your best self everyday you will attract girls
  2. The object of your affection has seen with their very own eyes that the opposite sex ENJOYS interacting with you, and they will ASSUME you have other options besides them

Now is the perfect time to MAKE THEM put forward the extra effort to ATTRACT YOU and PROVE they have high interest in you!!! Its your turn now, relax and enjoy the ride!